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Great Healers & Their Tragic Lives,
Why It's Been,Yet Needn't Be!

Have you ever truly sat down and spoken with a great healer asking about their childhood and then shudder in amazement how they ever lived through it? In their story you may hear they endured sexual, physical, emotional or mental abuse. In most cases it's a myriad of them all.

It's not surprising to hear a statement like; he raped me every chance he had or I was beaten so much I don't remember when I didn't cringe when they walked by me. You'll probably notice that in each statement it's not some drawn out emotional "poor me" story. The statements are non-chalant and the emotional attachment most would expect, just isn't there. Stranger still, it seems the better the healer, the worse the childhood. As a healer, I've seen people respond to a statement like this with a look of wonderment, wishing on some level that they could have experienced this in their lives. They actually attribute the capacity to help others heal to the extent of atrocities one has gone thru in order to "become" a healer. This belief simply isn't true.

So why is it that the "tragic healer" has such great success? Let's start with what a healer is. A healer is a facilitator for Creator's Divine Intervention. Quite simply put, a healer is a servant of God and knows that it is by God's will and not ours that miracles happen. Now that we've established this - What is the difference between a good healer and a great healer? There has to be some great secret, some sacred missing keys, right? There are several factors, yet the simplicity of these might surprise you.

Let's discuss the first factor and what I feel is the most important in this article. To understand this factor I'd ask these two questions. 1. How strong is your connection to God? 2. Who are you making your Source? I'm not talking about your healings alone. I mean every moment in your life. From your bad day, to deliberating how to live, raise your children, clean your house, nurture your soul, replenish your Spirit and interact with others. When things are going great who do you thank first? Do you go to your husband, your wife, perhaps a sibling or friend? The only reason that a great healer becomes a great healer is they know who their Source is. They are willing to dedicate their lives to serving God in whatever capacity need be and their connection to Source is amazing!

Do you understand the tragic childhood now? It's when you don't have a support system in these situations that you blame, hate and deny God or you turn everything over and make him your Source. Most of the time, it is both. I can honestly say I blamed and hated God for years. My hatred and anger was so engulfing that's all I could see. In this case, you either hit your breaking point and turn to God or go on hating until the day you die. Honestly, I think a difficult childhood is easier than a good one as a healer in making God your source. I state this because when you let yourself realize you need a Source, God is the only one there.

So let's say you have had a great childhood. How do you make God your Source without all the unnecessary drama? Its simple yet takes practice. Pray and make sure that your crown chakra is connected to God at all times. When you are going through difficult times, ask God for the answer. When something goes great say, Thank you God! and mean it. Now does this mean you don't go to friends or family for support and to share your joys with? Of course not, our family and friends are here to share in our joys and troubles. They are here to support us, but they are not our source. Only the Creator is. I sincerely hope this helps you along your path of healing.